The Power of Social Media


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IMAG0447 Social Media is amazing and here is why…….

I checked my mailbox this afternoon and received a letter from someone who shares the same first name as me. She was super appreciative of what I have shared as of late and the fact that I have been ill has had an impact.

However it was my post about my childhood and my affinity to Charles Schultz that had made an impact with her. I appreciate that because sometimes I feel like I do not matter or I am not important in the bigger picture of life. That’s my shit to deal with, and do not feel sorry for me. I have decided that 2015 is a time of honesty. I do best in odd years. Why? Because I am odd….and I love that about me.
So….with that being said. This person sent me Charlie Brown and Snoopy Valentines. I opened up my mailbox and got this envelope…when I opened it up, I read the letter and got these sweet I heart you remembrances.

Here is the thing folks…..she’s never met me…but I feel we have this kindred spirit that speaks of who we are as a part of a bigger humanity more than ourselves. Know what? I love that about social media….it reaches people you would never think or have the opportunity to reach and for that….it is awesome.

Hugs D!



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The New Year

It has been six months since I have written anything. Well, I take that back because that is not necessarily true. I have written so many things as of late due to school that it has zapped my strength in writing about anything else remotely interesting. I have made a promise to myself to write at least one interesting thing that DOES NOT have anything to do with English once a month. No excuses though. I have seriously screwed the pooch in not writing anything else but school work. I need to allow myself the time to enjoy writing and not feel that it is a “task” which what school has felt like. I liken to believe that I let that bleed into my personal writing attitude. Or maybe I was just too stressed out? Lazy? Bad Attitude? Who knows. What I can promise from now on is more stories from yours truly with maybe a school essay here and there. Listen folks, I am just glad 2014 is gone. I do better on odd number years. Here is to the new year and more stories soon. Cheers!


Essay written for my Sales class – August 2014

The article that chosen for the prospecting essay was written by Larry Prevost who is a Dale Carnegie Instructor and what he terms a “Social Media Evangelist.”  The title of the article is called “30 Tips for Creative Sales Prospecting.”  It is a basic article however he makes valid points on why salespersons are not successful and what to do to get back on track or take a “different direction.”  (Prevost, 2008)

In this article, Prevost states that sales people have constant issues with “finding a stream of incoming potential customers to talk with.”  This is true in the fact that business sales are not going to fall in ones lap.  An individual needs to be prospecting all the time to keep the sales funnel operating.  A sales funnel (pipeline) is a “trust-based sales process” in which at the top of the funnel is very wide where “sales opportunities exist.”  (Ingram, 2008)  Once the leads start down through the funnel, leads that are not good opportunities are weeded out and taken out of the funnel. 

What is important to remember is this:  the more leads that are weeded out of the funnel, the narrower the funnel becomes.  Hence, prospecting (a large part of the job) while selling is key to sales individuals.  In the article, Prevost states that some sales individuals “fall into a rut.”  Why?  It is based on the persons own behavior. (Prevost, 2008) Salespersons have been known to “fall back on comfortable behavior.”  (Prevost, 2008)  If it works, why fix it?  That mentality could be lost dollars in their own wallets. 

With that in mind, here are some interesting tips that Prevost gives that could give a person to get out of that “rut” and challenge themselves to do more.  Starting with item number two:  “Give a talk or presentation at a networking event, a conference, local service organization or industry meeting.  Have plenty of business cards on hand for distribution, and raffle off a prize at the end of the event to collect business cards from the audience.”  (Prevost, 2008) This idea is great to get the sales representatives name out in the field of their interest. Any event would give great leads by those who choose to enter the raffle, by calling them either that day or the next following day and introducing themselves and brand or service in which they are offering. 

Another great idea by Prevost is to “attend and participate in local seminars, workshops, and networking events.  In today’s environment, there are quite a few online networking events that offer participants the opportunity to share information in joint chat rooms.”  (Prevost, 2008)  Although chat rooms have gone to the wayside to social media, the use of Facebook, Tumblr and Twitter on the Internet is a great way to share your products and to find out where the next local seminar and workshop will be to attend.  Prevost shares the tip of “establishing yourself as a local or online resource.”  (Prevost, 2008)  This is in the same social media category as discussed, however establishing a blog to share industry information and to become the “source” in the local community is a great idea and does not cost any prospecting expenses.

Business announcements whether in a business journal, newspaper or online is another way to generate leads.  Prevost mentions to “read the paper and look for promotions, press releases new product announcements, awards etc. Write congratulatory notes or send a relevant current article with a personal note.”  (Prevost, 2008)  This is an excellent idea and salespersons do not utilize this enough.  A personal note has gone to the wayside due to e-mails, tweets and texts.  When sending that personal note, it shows that the salesperson took their time and effort to send a congratulatory note and people remember that.  It is important to follow up with that note by contacting that person within a reasonable amount of time to do a formal introduction.

These last two tips is for the new salesperson who has not done a cold call in their life.  That first call can be scary and if the person is on the other line says “no,” well that is a bit defeating.  Tip number one would be: Do the research.  Make sure that the salesperson is familiar with the product or service.  If the salesperson does not know a certain aspect of the company, research it.  Odds are, a customer is going to ask that question.  Tip number two:  “develop compelling cold calling scripts to introduce yourself, get an appointment, leave a voicemail, overcome objections, get through the gatekeeper or ask for the referral.”  (Prevost, 2008)  If the salesperson does not know where to begin, ask a veteran salesperson in the office.  Ask them what works for them.  See if the company has a mentorship program or a trainer to help the salesperson creating their own scripts.  Practice the scripts until there is a comfort level, because ultimately the salesperson will develop their own style and practice makes perfect. 

In closing, it does not matter if a salesperson is just starting out in sales or is a veteran in the company.  At one time or another, getting into a rut can happen.  The key is to be able to recognize when it is happening and to seek out new ways of prospecting so that the salespersons business is successful and ever growing.  These tips and other mentionable ones in Prevost’s article are worth reviewing and contemplating.  Happy Selling! 

Free the Internet : Monopolies, the FCC and Net Neutrality

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The Internet is becoming a hostage to corporate monopolies.   Just as an individual needs electricity or gas, the Internet should be considered a utility.  Currently a hot debate is brewing about the Internet.  Should it be a utility?  Should the Internet be free?  Should large cable, media or cell phone carriers have the ability to merge and hence, garner no competition for the customer?  Finally, does the FCC have a responsibility to every American to ensure that the Internet is accessible and fast for all?  These questions will be answered in this essay.

What is Net Neutrality?  It is a “network design paradigm that argues for broadband network providers to be completely detached from what information is sent over their networks.”  CITATION UCB14 l
1033 (UC Berkeley) Basically, no web traffic, hits or any type of information should take precedence over another.  In fact, the ACLU states that the danger of not allowing a “free” Internet is that companies “can’t play favorites because they disagree with the message being delivered or want to charge more money for faster delivery.”  CITATION Ame14 l 1033 (American Civil Liberties Union)

If in fact that there is such a concern that the Internet will be pieced apart by companies and be allowed to charge higher fees for more traffic, then why doesn’t the U.S. government make it a utility?  Actually the F.C.C. (Federal Communications Commission) actually can make the Internet a utility.  In fact, it has the absolute power to just that.  Tim Wu, a professor at Columbia University states that for years “consumers have been waiting for serious competition to arrive, yet there is now less competition than ever.”   CITATION WuT14 l 1033 (Wu and Szoka) Wu goes on to further state that “classifying broadband as a ‘common carrier’ under the 1934 Telecommunication Act would allow the FCC to use the full extent of its authority to prevent broadband providers from extracting tolls that damage the broader economy.” 

In the past ten years, providers such as AT&T, Comcast, Verizon Wireless and Telus have tried and been successful in “interfering with the Internet.”   CITATION Ame14 l 1033 (American Civil Liberties Union)  AT&T blocked Eddie Vedder, of the band Pearl Jam from singing “leave this world alone” by pulling the sound plug.  CITATION Ame14 l
1033 (American Civil Liberties Union) Comcast was accused of throttling “online file sharing” through torrents  CITATION Ame14 l 1033 (American Civil Liberties Union) and the list goes on and on.  In fact, Google, Microsoft and Yahoo have been lobbying to pass legislation to stop these practices altogether to make a free internet – hence “Net Neutrality.”  CITATION Guo10 l 1033 (Guo)<!–[if supportFields]><![endif]–>

Regular citizens have been joining the ranks by signing petitions such as to stop the Comcast-Time Warner merger  CITATION fre14 l 1033 (, or other sites such as,, have joined the movement as well.  The FCC has been taking comments from the American public at  At last count, there are 52,930 comments ranging from “free speech should not be bought and sold” to “we want net neutrality.”   CITATION FCC14 l 1033 (<!–[if supportFields]><![endif]–>  Even Al Franken, U.S. Senator from Minnesota gave an impassioned plea that if this is implemented “mom and pop stores would lose even more ground to corporate giants.  Big media companies will be able to get their version of the news to consumers faster, and would end up paying for it with higher rates.”   CITATION Fra14 l 1033 (Franken)<!–[if supportFields]><![endif]–>  So, with this many Americans responding to this issue, why isn’t this cut and dry? 

Enter the FCC Chairman, Thomas Wheeler.  He was confirmed in October 2013 as the new head of the FCC.  Wheeler was the “managing director at Core Capital Partners” and had been a “top lobbyist for the wireless and cable industries.”   CITATION Sni13 l
1033 (Snider) From “1979 to 1984, Wheeler was the president of the National Cable Television Association and a CEO of Cellular Telecommunications and Internet Association.”  CITATION Sni13 l
1033 (Snider)  There has been concerned that Wheeler has had the interests of the cell and Internet provider companies more at heart than the average American citizen. 

Case in point is the pending merger of Comcast-Time Warner.  As Tim Wu stated earlier that “consumers have been waiting for competition to arrive”  CITATION WuT14 l 1033 (Wu and Szoka) and clearly it has not.  The pending merger of Comcast-Time Warner has the tell-tale signs of a Monopoly.  What is the true definition of a Monopoly?  “A monopoly is free to set any price it chooses and will usually set the price that yields the largest possible profit.”   CITATION Last l 1033 (Stigler)  Monopolies stiffen competition, driving other smaller competitors right out of the market.  Concerns about monopolies date back to the creation of the Sherman Act in the Progressive Era.  “The concern in the Progressive Era with protecting consumer welfare called for prohibitions on predatory business tactics and on horizontal mergers aimed at creating monopolies and cartels.”  CITATION
Cal12 l 1033 (Calabresi and Leibowitz)

What does the merger offer the each company?  The tab to pick up Time Warner is $42.5 billion.  Comcast would have “30 million U.S. homes; 30% of all of the cable households and 40% of the high-speed Internet market.”   CITATION Mac14 l 1033 (Macke)<!–[if supportFields]><![endif]–>  Of course, Comcast states that as a result that it would be “faster internet speeds and more reliable service.”   CITATION Mac14 l 1033 (Macke)<!–[if supportFields]><![endif]–>  However that was not the case earlier this week when Ryan Block, head of Product at AOL called Comcast to cancel his service.  It was a relentless call to customer retention that wound up becoming viral on the Internet.  CITATION HuE14 l
1033 (Hu)  It further showed that maybe becoming too big could become a problem for all individuals who use the Internet service provider.

Thomas Wheeler, head of the F.C.C. touts “not so fast” on his blog recently.   CITATION Gus14 l 1033 (Gustin)<!–[if supportFields]><![endif]–>  Wheeler states that he intends to “prohibit companies from blocking or degrading Internet services until 2018.”   CITATION Gus14 l 1033 (Gustin)<!–[if supportFields]><![endif]–>  He further states that the “Internet will remain like it is today, an open pathway.”   However, there is the proposal that would allow some companies “preferential treatment” such as Netflix but it would be on a “case-by-case” basis.  CITATION Gus14 l 1033 (Gustin)<!–[if supportFields]><![endif]–>  Remember that Netflix made a deal with Comcast and Verizon regarding bandwidth usage and that is not “covered by the new rules.”  CITATION Gus14 l 1033 (Gustin)<!–[if supportFields]><![endif]–>

Another individual who believes that the FCC is doing the right thing is Berin Szoka who is the President of TechFreedom, a think tank in Washington D.C.  He states that more federal regulations and placing the Internet as a utility is futile based on how Washington D.C. operates.  He believes that the FCC should allow “phone companies transition to Internet protocol-based networks” which could save “billions of dollars” to make a “second pipe faster.”  CITATION WuT14 l 1033 (Wu and Szoka) He believes turning the utility into a utility would freeze competition and make the process “slow and messy.”   CITATION WuT14 l 1033 (Wu and Szoka)  Interestingly, he does support antitrust and consumer protection laws and believes “that’s a better model for regulation.”   CITATION WuT14 l 1033 (Wu and Szoka)

What is clear is that most individuals want a free Internet and there are good points to consider on each side of the issue.  What is paramount is that all Americans and individuals throughout the world have access to the Internet in order to communicate, consume and learn.  Whether the Internet will become a utility or not is yet to be seen and it is unclear what the ramifications will be if the Comcast-Time Warner merger is approved.  Hopefully when the F.C.C. makes their decision about “Net Neutrality” soon that decisions are made that benefit the masses fairly and equally. 


Works Cited

 BIBLIOGRAPHY American Civil Liberties Union. What is Net Neutrality? 19 July 2014. Website : 19 July 2014.

Calabresi, S.G. and L.C. Leibowitz. “Monopolies and the Constitution: A History of Crony Capitalism.” The Federalist Society for Law and Public Policy Studies (2012): 989-1073. Journal. Open Internet. 19 July 2014. Website:

Franken, A. U.S. Senator. Net Neutrality: The Free Speech Issue of Our Time. 6 May 2014. YouTube – . Join the Fight o Stop the Comcast-Time Warner Merger. 19 July 2014. Website: 19 July 2014.

Guo, H, Bandyopadhay, S, et al. “Net Neutrality and Vertical Integration of Content and Broadband Services .” Journal of Management Information Systems Vol 27, No 2. (Fall 2010 ): 243-275. Journal.

Gustin, S. “FCC Chairman Tom Wheeler Hits Back at “Net Neutrality” Critics.” 2 May 2014. Website . 19 July 2014.

Hu, Elise. Don’t Fire The Comcast Guy, Says Caller Who Tried To Cancel. 16 July 2014. <;.

Macke, J. Comcast Time Warner Merger would create customer service nightmare. 16 July 2014. Website:—time-warner-merger-would-create-customer-service-nightmare-122949247.html. 19 July 2014 .

Snider, M. Wheeler confirmed as head of FCC . 29 October 2013. Website: 19 July 2014.

Stigler, G.J. The Concise Encyclopedia of Economics: Monopoly 2nd Edition. n.d. Website : 19 July 2014.

UC Berkeley. Network Neutrality. n.d. Website: 19 July 2014.

Wu, T and B. Szoka. Should the U.S. Regulate Broadband Internet Access as a Utility? . 11 May 2014. Website: 19 July 2014.

A.D.H.D. – The Real Disorder

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Written in July 2014.

Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (A.D.H.D.) is a documented and recognized disease by the American Psychiatric Association. The definition by the Diagnostic and Statistical   Manual of Mental Disorders, A.D.H.D. symptoms are “high activity levels, limited attention spans and difficulty remaining still for long periods”  CITATION DSM13 l
1033 (DSM LIbrary) in which currently there is no cure.  The diagnosis is difficult as symptoms are different for each child.  This essay will show why this is a real disease and to debunk the current wave of naysayers who state that A.D.H.D. is “made up.”

In the article “Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder: Is the Deficit in the Child or in the Environment?” by Edward Kirby, the origin of A.D.H.D. came from earlier diagnoses as far back as the 1940’s with such names as “brain damaged child syndrome” to “minimal brain damage syndrome” in the 1950’s.  CITATION Kir l 1033 (Kirby)  Other names throughout the decades were “hyperactive or hyperkinetic syndrome, and attention-deficit disorder”  CITATION Kir l
1033 (Kirby) until A.D.H.D. became most have become familiar with now.

Research shows that A.D.H.D. knows no age, sex, boundaries or economic status as well.  This is further proven by a journal article from the Centers for Disease Control by Visser ad Lesesne.  These authors has stated that as of 2003, at least “4.4 million children aged 4-17 years were reported to have a history of A.D.H.D. diagnosis.”  CITATION Vis l 1033 (Visser, S N; A, Lesesne C Centers for Disease Control) The authors further assert that of those 4.4 million children, “2.5 million (56%) were reported to be taking medication for the disorder.”   CITATION Vis l
1033 (Visser, S N; A, Lesesne C Centers for Disease Control)<!–[if supportFields]><![endif]–> The reason for the study was in fact because of “substantial health risks and benefits might be associated with medication treatment for A.D.H.D.” that more study of these children was needed.  The report shows that it did not matter the age, sex, or economic status of the parents:  A.D.H.D. affects a large swath of the American youth.   CITATION Vis l
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Recently, an article was printed in Time Magazine by a Dr. Richard Saul.  Dr. Saul insists that in his “course of his career, he found more than 20 conditions that can lead to symptoms of A.D.H.D.”  He further asserts that that parents along with physicians are raising children with a “life of stimulant” and that it is not the solution.  Dr. Saul has experience in the field of behavioral neurology.”  Dr. Saul discusses how he has had patients come to his office and he has determine that these children have “sleep disorders, vision issues, vision problems, and allergies.”  However, he categorizes children with A.D.H.D. fall into two separate categories: the one group who have a “normal distraction level” should eat right and exercise.  The second category: he states he can a different issue and A.D.H.D. will go away.   CITATION Sau14 l 1033 (Saul)<!–[if supportFields]><![endif]–>  Dr. Saul gives no examples of ever meeting a child who clearly suffers from A.D.H.D. and acts like the disease is a fantasy.

In a recent interview with an A.D.H.D. sufferer, a person who wishes to remain anonymous states that “without the medications that I have been taking since I was six years old, I would not be able to focus at all.” He states that when he is not on the medication that he would have “an inability to get even the most minuet of chores done, and homework?  Let’s not even talk about it.”  He has had to have multiple medicine adjustments throughout the years, and has found that some of his symptoms have lessened as he has gotten older. However, he states that “A.D.H.D. is still a struggle.”  He went to several doctors until the one physician believed his symptoms and gave him Ritalin.  He states Ritalin is a god send and helps him tremendously. <!–[if supportFields]><![endif]–>

Clearly one persons example is one of many children and young adults who struggle with this disease on a daily basis.  The Vice Chairman of Psychiatry at the New York University, Harold Koplewicz makes a great point in regards to what children that suffer from this disorder says “I think that the most important part is what when you’re able to systematically study what these kids look like long term, you start to recognize that without treatment, these children lose out on a normal life”  CITATION Bau14 l 1033 (Baughman, Fred –  That is a valid point to consider for kids who without the medications, could not function.

It is abundantly clear that based on journals of scientific evidence not only in this essay but online and in college libraries throughout the world that A.D.H.D. is a real disease that children and adults suffer from on a daily basis.

 BIBLIOGRAPHY Baughman, Fred – Does ADHD Exist? . 2014. online.

DSM LIbrary. Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, Fith Edition, DSM-5. Arlington: American Psychiatric Association, 2013. Web.

Kirby, Edward A. “Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder: Is the Deficit in the Child or in the Environment?” Indiana State University (1992): 363-364. Electronic.

Saul, Richard M.D. “Doctor: ADHD Does Not Exist.” Time 14 March 2014: 1. web.

Visser, S N; A, Lesesne C Centers for Disease Control. “Prevalence of Diagnosis and Medication Treatment for Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder – United States 2003.” MMWR. Morbidity and Mortality Weekly Report (2005): 842-847. Journal Article.

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